I mean really?
I am sure everyone reading this knows when to take a hint.
This lad, who I have known for ages, used to keep texting me.
It was so annoying.
I am talking like everyday, and I do not even know him that well. We used to speak every now and then, like once a week or so, which was fine, I was cool with that. I do not like to keep talking to those I do not know that well, all the time (and those who I know I will never really get to know much more), but then about 3 months ago, he began texting every stupid bloody day. He knew I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend, I personally do not think that is acceptable to text someone else every day (some may argue against this, but it is what I think). I told my boyfriend and friends and they were like "ooh just ignore him", but I thought that was really harsh.
So, when he did text, I kept my replies to the ultimate minimum. And I can't even express that enough. I am talking about replies like, "haha yeah", "aha no", "no", "yes", "K". Come on, no one likes a "K" reply, but no, he seemed fine with it, he kept on texting. Surely he must have taken a hint by then!? Text after text after text after bloody, stupid, horrible, pathetic text.
I had to take everyone's advice and just not reply, really harsh and mean, I know, but I was getting so angry.
By this time, it was like the end of September. So the next day came and he text me, and I did not reply. He text me the day after that, and I did not reply. The same happened for a few more days, then one day, I did not get a text. I have never been so relieved in my life. Days went by and I still received no text off him.
He had got the hint!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Sorry about the amount of exclamation marks, but they are really needed to express how happy I was).
But oh no, about 2 nights ago, I was just about to drift off, happily wrapped up in my nice warm duvet, and then my phone buzzes.
I quickly checked it, and low and behold it is that bloody lad.
"Hey jazzzzzzz! Hows things??xxx"
Grrrrrrrrrrrr. The rage was building.
I didn't text back. Then in the afternoon the next day I received another text; "You get my text jazz???xx"
YES I DID GET IT.
Immediately, the first thing I had to do was download a call and text blocker.
I have now blocked his number.
EVERYONE, if you have a similar problem, and you have an android phone, download 'Mr.Number'. He is Mr.Fantasticoooo. My new love.
Anyone had any similar problems? Do you think I am being a tad harsh? I do not mind your views :)
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My song this week is such a beautiful one, I love it with absolutely all my heart and it will never, ever bore me. Hope you like it! And the film is just fab! Anyone else love Avatar?
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I hope you have all had a lovely weekend. Mine has been ok, just lazy days!
Also I put a face pack on the other night and my mum made me laugh and my face all cracked, don't you just hate that?
~Jazz
Ohh yes, I've known a few like that!
ReplyDeleteIt is really scary when someone is so intense, and it makes it more difficult to ignore them. I definitely empathise with you! The call/text blocker sounds so good, i wish they had this option on all phones! Unfortunately, mine is a nokia but i'm going to look for an equivalent to Mr Number! x
ReplyDeleteahaha, i understand your annoyance. thankyou for your lovely comment by the way, i love your blog - new follower! :)
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Oh my goodness!! I have had similar problems! He texted me sporadically and he just gave me the heebie jeebies. So I just stopped texting him and he stopped texting me. Thank goodness!!
ReplyDeleteI hope your fellow stops texting you all together! It is so scary! :P
you've made me want to watch Avatar again- it's been too long!
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BB has the so called Mr. Number CallBlock. It works wonders! lol
ReplyDeleteJust followed you sweetie :) x
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I have had the same problem as you, and it is annoying. Usually I don't mind people texting once in a while, or texting if they have something to say, but I don't like using my credit to send messages just saying 'k' or something. The blocker sounds interesting!
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laave that song! x
ReplyDeleteI've had a similar problem before, except he was also my friend's ex (messy break up too). I eventually stopped replying like you, and he pretty much gave up texting thankfully. Only problem is that I live in a small place so I'm always paranoid I'll bump into him!
ReplyDeleteawesome song! and maybe you should politely ask your text pest to stop texting you and see what happens haha x
ReplyDeleteSome people man. I remember my "single" days of annoying boys who are too thick headed to understand that I just wasn't interested. Ugh.
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